Today I will be introducing my beauty side of my blog, but I first want to get one thing straight. No matter what tips I give you or what advice you take from me or anyone else, you are still beautiful. You have always been beautiful and you always will be. You were gorgeous before you bought your first bottle of foundation or learned to curl your hair. You were stunning before he told you and before she told you, and even after they didn't Assuming that my readers will be mostly from the female population, I want to tell my fellow ladies something very important. What you look like does not determine your value or your worth. Today's society has so many rules, regulations, and restrictions for women. We can't wear too much make up without being called fake and we can't wear none at all without being labeled as sloppy. If we wear a skirt then we are asking for it but if we wear sweatpants we need to try harder. Let me tell you something, I want you to take everything you have ever been taught about your value equaling your beauty and toss it out the window. None of that is true. You can wear glasses and not have perfect teeth and you are still gorgeous. You can curl your hair and have spotless skin, and you are still capable of being something outside of just the pretty girl.
Your looks do not determine how successful you will or will not be. There will be many times throughout your life where people will try to tell you that your looks in fact do matter above everything else. I want you to try ad forget those people, even if its hard. Forget the ones who tell you that you'll never amount to much because you're too pretty to become a judge or run a company. Forget the ones who tell you that you need to try harder with your image to be taken seriously. Forget the ones you say you'll never be taken seriously because you're too attractive. Forget them all, they only wish to keep you under the clouds when the sun awaits you. You can do whatever you want in life, be whoever you want. You only have one life, so don't hold yourself back by fear or by the condescending words of others. If you want to walk the world with a full face of make up and a fresh manicure, then work it because those who judge you are only jealous. If you prefer to wear no make up, still aspire to your dreams with your true front for everyone to see.
Another thing I want to remind all of you is that were not put on this earth to please other people, and you were definitely not put here to please men. Do you think that whatever God you believe in would create the entire universe in all its beautiful glory, and then fill our world with people who were only made to create the happiness of others? Or if you are Atheist and strictly believe in science, how sad would it be if after everything the universe took to create you, and you wasted it by standing back from your true greatness? If someone tells you that your use of make up gives people false advertisement, leave and stay the hell away from those people. You are not a package to be bought, you are a human being. If someone tells you that no man will ever love you when your blemishes are showing, walk your sassy self out of that person's life and never look back. If someone doesn't love you for what you look like with no make up then they don't deserve a spot in your life. You hold the pen to your life story, no one else but you. Every single person in the world is a possible character in your book, and you get to decide who you write into it and who you erase. Don't let society try to steal your pen.
No matter what you do in life, you will do it beautifully because you, in fact, are one good looking lady. You can aspire to greatness, in any way you want to. Whether that is running for president one day, building towns in Third World countries, you becoming a stay at home mother who raises her children right so they can aspire to their own greatness. Everyone has a role in this world, everyone leaves their fingerprint. And even long after you are gone, that fingerprint remains. So be who you truly are, not who you wish you were or who people want you to be. But who you truly know yourself to be. That is the only way you can be happy with yourself in this big world of ours. Take the risks that scare you and accept the rewards. You are beautiful and amazing and I love you already.
-HMBrownie
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